My story so far. In response to Sophie’s philosphy (Jim)
I absolutely agree with ur comment except the last line. The meaning of life is to never be forgotten. i dont like that line, sorry.
I follow another philosphy, learned from the book, “tuesday with Morries”.
Everyone should read that book. It is an inspirational and entertaining book. Basically: love community, family and have a meaningful goal.
There are also lots of other important philosphy shared by Moorie (Uni professor), suitable for all ages!!!
To GET RID OF A NEGATIVE/SAD/ANGRY ANY FEELING, try let the feeling consume u. Let it go through ur brain. Once u experience the worst part of the feeling, then say i WANT TO GET ON WITH MY LIFE. THERE ARE NOTHING TO FEAR ABOUT THESE PARTICULAR FEELING (because u know what that feeling is) . I WANT TO LIVE POSITIVELY. I DO NOT WANT TO WASTE TIME DWELLING ON THIS CRAP. STUFF THESE NEGATIVE CRAPS.
DETACH IT.
The idea behind this is, learn how TO DIE, THEN U’D LEARN HOW TO LIVE. fOCUS ON THE ESSENTIALS OF UR LIFE (ignore material things–not meaningful/fulfilling/ NOR GIVE U happinesS)
One more tip: learn to accept the past is the past. can’t change it anyway. So forgive urself and others. Dont let ur failure from the past keep holding u back or make ur ashamed. Learn from it and move on. Be brave and accept that we are human and there are more chances to improve.
Give out love and Accept love from others (do not be afraid or feel weak for doing so). Personally i feel love is very fulfilling. It helps me to have luck as well. 🙂
I help ppl and they helped me.
Also for some reasons my life is going smoothly and fantastically. I think this might be called “good karma”.
Making the initial step is hard but “reward” would come to u.
Trust me on this one, it has never failed me so far.
Try it 🙂
That sounds like a fantastic book Jim. I definitely want to give it a read. All those points you mentioned make a lot of sense to me.
It sounds like you are living life in a very positive (and inspiring!) way. It’s great to know people are out there with the ability to think about life with a very mature mind-set. Congratulations – you deserve any good karma that comes your way!
Hey bro – in a nice, ironic twist, I love what you have to say about love. If you love someone, you can never tell it to them enough. Life is short and the world isn’t fair, so a little love (even unreturned) never goes to waste.
See, i got involved in blogs and i got to know these wonderful fellow bloggers. I had fun and learned from them.
This is exactally the good karma, which i referred to.
our positive action can change the world for good.
Have faith (i learned this in philosphy RRR—have a hope, that will give u a purpose in life), and live ur life.
In response to Jez, i agree. but also we should talk, do something together and exchange feelings with family or gf etc.
My family, teachers (i still keep IN TOUCH WITH my high scool esl teacher, Ms Bland, it was she who lent the Book (Morries) to me) , friends, they keep me emotionally happy, i hope everyone would be nice to them and able to receive their support.